My Boyfriend Wants Sex
I am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. I am a virgin and he is not, but he
wants to have sex with me. I am not ready but am afraid if I don't he'll break
up with me. I like this guy a lot but I am not too sure. What should I do?
Virgins are like treasure to some guys. When they sleep with one, they brag to
all of their friends and talk about how good it was, then wait for their friends
to pat them on the back. Pretty soon all that treasure will be spent; then what
will you be left with? A "reputation".
You only get to be a virgin once and after that there is no turning back. I'm
willing to bet that your boyfriend is proud that you are a virgin; proud of
himself, that is, because he has one. You have a right to be proud of yourself
as well. If your boyfriend truly loves you, he'll respect your wishes and wait
till you are ready, because you can't truly love someone without respecting